Comments on: Struggling . . .

By: Emily Jane

Emily Jane — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 15:17:22 +0000

In times like these it’s often useful to make a list of everything that’s stressing you out right now, and breaking it into things you have control over and things you don’t. Cross off the ones you don’t and remember that participation in a lot of things is often optional. You only have a finite amount of energy and it’s best to focus it on things that you actually can control, and also things that make *you* happy – I really hope things calm down for you soon, miss *hug*

@EmilyJane – Well, I DID make a list. Less of things that’s stressing me out, and more a list of things I want to do/can do that give me something else to focus on. And I totally agree, there’s only so much I can do, only so much I can focus on. I think I’m going to be a little bit selfish and focus on me for a bit, instead of the people close to me. Thanks for the comment, hey. You are fantastic. <3! - elly x

By: sleepyjane

sleepyjane — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 06:16:42 +0000

I sincerely hope things calm down for your soon. Stay strong love. xxx

@Sleepyjane – Me too! Thanks chicka, I will endeavour to keep my chin up. Thanks for the comment, hey <3 - elly x

By: Desiree Fawn

Desiree Fawn — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 05:56:51 +0000

Lots of hugs from the other side of the world dude <3 It'll all work out -- thinking about you a lot!

@Desiree – oh <3! Thanks friend, you are brilliant. - elly x

By: andrea

andrea — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 00:44:16 +0000

here is to at least.. fast forward. If you can't pause, then with luck you can get through it quickly. xoxo @Andrea - <3! I'm all about fast forwarding through things at the moment. I'm all about drama-free distractions and quick, fast-paced fun that means you don't have to think. In short, I'm rocking sports and the 'A fast game is a good game' mentality. Thanks for the comment, hey. - elly x